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Seeing people comment on Spencer’s weight makes me think the following: he’s careful about what he eats and exercises when he’s home, but on tour he lets himself go.

Which is honestly what I would probably do too if I were in his shoes.

I really don’t think the guy’s got an eating disorder.  Seriously.

And as someone who varies between average and plus sized depending on the year, the medications I’m taking, my job, my stress levels, and God knows what else, it’s annoying as fuck when people comment on weight loss or gain regardless of their tone.  It feels just as intrusive when people say, “Wow, you look great!” as when they say, “You’ve lost too much weight.”  Stop policing my body, motherfuckers.

  1. magdajane reblogged this from heart-likethefourthofjuly and added:
    And as someone who varies between average and plus sized depending...year, the medications...
  2. parkerlewiscanlose said: I agree. He’s careful before going on the road, because road life probably isn’t exactly conducive to keeping up with nutrition and all. He is kind of skinny, but it could possibly change as life on the road goes on. I don’t know, I’m not his keeper!
  3. heart-likethefourthofjuly posted this